She was everyone’s pillar of strength.
She went above and beyond for everyone at length.
She loved you like none else.
And made laddoos that in your mouth melt.
She was unstoppable
until she was able.
She knew when you were being shady
For she was the Boss Lady.
We met when I was a few minutes old – she could have been the first person to hold me. During childhood, Mamma would arrive during our final exams and whisk us away on our last day of exams for our summer vacations. Summer vacations would start with Papa Ajoba making Rasna (Go 90s!) and Mothi Aai (Mamma) making laddoos and other delicacies. She made sure we were well-fed, bathed, and had what we needed. They took us to amusement parks. Excursions with Mothi Aai-Papa Ajoba included going to the mandir, bank, doctors, and whatnot. Soon ‘Mothi Aai’ graduated to ‘Mamma’ and then ‘Mamma Panji’ when the Baby was born.
I remember her being worried when our family struggled – she treated our problems as hers. Even though she and Papa Ajoba lived away, they were always around if we needed them – mentally, physically, and financially. We would not have been able to achieve our dreams without their wholehearted and unconditional support.
Mamma was very proud of her grandkids’ achievements – big and small. Her love was always wholesome. She had the biggest heart and had a corner for everyone. She managed to make everyone feel special. That was Mamma for you – strong, independent, brave, caring, empathetic, fearless, giving, priceless, irreplaceable, Boss Lady.
I still cannot believe that she is gone. I hope she is with Papa now. May her soul rest in peace.
Love you and Miss you, Mamma, now and forever. ❤
Of Sun and Sand 