Date: 05/09/2019, Thursday
Venue: Seattle, WA, USA
8:22 AM – A Whatsapp message pops up on one of the groups. It is an article about the time zones of life. I am sure you all must have read it too. The first thing that came to my already messed up mind was ‘how situational!’
4:23 PM – In the middle of an almost ridiculous conversation the question “What do you think about time zones?” was slipped.
Had she read my Whatsapp messages? Or was this a universal concept?
You don’t think of concepts like these when everything is hunky-dory. You never reflect upon life when you’re happy – because you are too busy basking in it’s glory. It is when your yard work has not been done properly do you worry about the value proposition of your grass.
I did not know how to answer that question. Time zones – okay – yes – maybe – just a way of saying focus on improving your gardening skills and appreciate the blades of your grass rather than envying someone else’s. Makes sense. And that is probably a constructive sentiment and emotion to have. Two people from different walks of life had spoken about the same concept in a day. Time to think. My clouded mind (and I did not even have to consume an adult beverage for my mind to be in that state) started gathering the scattered thoughts on the bus ride back home.
I am a woman of science. Yes – vampires, witches, psychics, philosophy intrigue me. But… show me some proof if you want me on board. Yes, I like the concept of the green grass and time zones –
The grass is greener when you water it.
The grass is greener on the other side because well.. it is fake.
My favorite –
I am too busy smoking my grass to notice that yours is greener.
But the bottom line is –
I am too busy working on my own grass to notice yours is greener.
They say patience is the key (lol). They say things happen when they have to. They (loosely) use the term “meant to be” at equal intervals. But i still don’t get it. Perhaps these are multiple concepts intertwined into one and so it shall take some time for me to grasp. Meanwhile let’s decide to do the following –
- seek help to improve gardening skills
- water your grass every day
- know that watering the grass every day may not translate into a greener grass instantly. It is not Maggie noodles.
- talk to people in the same boat
- appreciate the blades of your grass
- respect the present by living in it
- be grateful that you even have a yard and keep yourself too busy to notice anyone else’s
Let me know how it goes.